We found out that she couldn't have children, so we adopted two kids: Dee Dee, when she was four months old, and Tony, who just passed away a couple of months ago. My son. 51 years old. He got real sick. Dee Dee - that's [a picture of] Dee Dee up in the corner there - she's about 42 now. A good singer. She's like her mother. Then after being married to Pearl Bailey for 39 years, I met another gem. I thought after Pearl Bailey I was going to not get married again. Just play my drums, write music, tour, write, compose, keep on doing it, until I went on a Duke Ellington cruise, which this young lady was on that same cruise. When I saw her with a mini-skirt on - I told her later on - I said, You need a lot of loving, and I'm just the guy that can give it to you. " Anthony