There was rivalries. Everybody was proud of themselves. We got people that wants to be isolated from other people and they're particular about who they associate with. Like in our case they had many reasons why they didn't want to associate with you. A little comedy comes in there. Maybe your lip's too fat. Maybe your hair is too curly or your hair is too kinky. We have about a hundred different colors we're involved with. Light brown. All them different browns. Everybody wants to be with that color thing. So if you wasn't welcome in this society, you got together with people of your identification that you all look like one another, could be cousins or brothers. Lots of times you were cousins and brothers and sisters, but you didn't know it. A lot of finagling went on in those days. You go home, and you tell your mother you're going to see a girl, say "Who that girl's name? You cannot go see that girl no more, because that's your sister. " "How do you mean that's my sister? " "Don't ask the questions. Shhhh. Keep it quiet. That is your sister. You cannot go with that girl. You wouldn't want to marry your sister, would you? "